Do you have any favorite blogger and influencer? Ever wonder how they do it like how they are able to travel to places, be ambassadors of certain brands or speak to a crowd about certain values and perspectives? How about being a blogger or an influencer yourself? Anyone can be one!
Based on our favorite famous bloggers and influencers, they all started from the bottom and worked hard to where they are now. How did they do it, you say? Aside from having and using their niches and resources, this main thing that they did was have a positive attitude. And what I mean by this is not only having it mentally but as a whole being. Let me break it down to you.
Believing in yourself.
We all know how sometimes self-doubt gets in the way of our mindset. When we tell ourselves we are not good enough, that we’ll just fail in the end and our efforts will go to waste or just being lazy in doing something great for ourselves. And even if our family and friends are always there for us, remember that you are the only one who can help yourself and stand on your own two feet. It takes a lot of courage to have faith in the capacity of what you can do. If you want be a blogger or influence others, then be it! Post a photo of yourself looking up the skies with your caption, “Believe you can and aim high for it!”
Be in control.
This is related to the number one positive attitude. Let’s face it, no matter how hard we try to be ourselves, there will be others who will bring you down and give negative feedback about you. This is going to be normal on the cyber web. Even celebrities experience these kinds of affairs. The only thing you can do about this is to accept every negative comment and just stay optimistic with what you love doing. Keep in mind that we are not here to please everyone. There will be those who will support you, and as much as I don’t want to say it, people who won’t. And you know what? That’s okay. As long as you’re not stomping on other people, or getting back at them, that’s okay. Because at the start and end of the day, you are in control of how and what you want to feel. Just make sure it’s a good one. And always be the good person. #positivity!
As they always say, “consistency is key.” And I don’t think that’s a cliché because, in order for you to become successful, you need to be persistent with what you want and with your goals. Being a successful blogger or influencer doesn’t take overnight to do. You need to be ambitious and committed to where you want to be. Your future self will thank you later.
Be always thankful to yourself.
Whether it’s just reading a book or article about how the first steps to be a social media influencer or blogger, give yourself a pat on the back for a great job! It may be a small thing, but it’s going to make a huge difference in the future. Appreciate your own little efforts and even your mistakes. Mistakes are big opportunities for you to learn and you should be proud of it. Without them, it won’t make you a strong individual. –is feeling blessed.
This is the most important attitude you need from all the 4 combined. You’ve done your part and now what? You wait. But while you do so, continue to hustle. Learn, apply and be persistent. It will take a while, but everything will be worth it. Remember that nothing comes in easy. It’s like planting a beautiful flower. You’ll be able to see the beauty of the flower when you know you’ve worked hard in taking care of it.
And so that’s it! Easy to read but hard to do? Yes, it is. But if you know what you want, you’ll get it. This does not only apply to bloggers and influencers, but to those who want to be successful in life. And I know you can do it! I am a believer that you can! Continue to dream and do! Cheers!